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How To Have Phenomenal Conversations With Girls
Written By Matt S.
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Tags flirting, dating, conversation, talking, girls,
If you're a guy that has trouble talking to the opposite sex, you're not alone. Many guys just forget how to have basic conversations when in the presence of attractive females, and suffer because of it. If you can't have a good conversation with a girl you're attracted to, forget about ever standing a chance to date her. Girls won't date you if they're not comfortable talking to you, so it's important to have good conversation skills to become a better dater. Here are a few tips to keep in mind when you start a conversation with an attractive lady.
Start With These Common Conversation Topics
You've talked about these things a million times with other people before so you have some experience under your belt. Remember to have interesting answers about these same topics when she asks you about them too. Another important thing to remember about conversation topics is to avoid anything negative or offensive. Try to avoid talking about illnesses, deaths, or polarizing issues like abortion, gay marriage, and religion.
Talk To Her Like Someone You'd Like To Date, Not Like A Friend
Doing these things will show her you have strength and confidence and aren't intimidated by her. These are all important things to convey to her as she considers whether or not you're worth dating.
If you're having trouble flirting with girls during conversation, just tease them a little here and there. You could ask her what her goals in life are, and if she has nothing to say, playfully give her a hard time about it. If she has an obsession with a washed out boy band, jokingly tell her she needs to listen to new music. If she has a weird habit or quirk, playfully tell her you think she's nuts. There are so many ways you can flirt with girls and lightly push their buttons when having open ended conversations with them and doing so is vitally important if you want to date them.
Make An Observation About Your Surroundings Or Her
Don't Try Too Hard To Impress Her
Lead An Interesting Life
If you start doing these things, you'll have more to talk about with the girls you meet. The reason why this is important is that attractive girls usually have a lot of options, and if you're not doing anything interesting with your life, they'll find guys that are. So get off of your couch or computer chair and start doing more interesting things outside of your house.
Practice Makes Perfect
The absolute best way to practice your conversation skills is to have conversations with strangers. This is a very difficult thing to do, but it comes with its rewards. If you learn to have conversations with strangers, having normal conversations with people you just meet in work and social settings will be much easier. To start a conversation with a stranger, it's best to initiate by making a statement or asking a question about something. Here are a few reliable ways to get started:
When initiating a conversation with a stranger, remember to keep your voice loud and clear so the person you're talking to know he or she is being talked to. It is also important to remember not to be overly loud and clear or you might come off as threatening and intimidating, which is the last thing you want to convey to a stranger. Another thing to avoid is getting too close to the person you're talking to. You have to be somewhat detached at first because if the conversation fizzles, you'll be able to remove yourself from the conversation more gracefully.
Remember To Use Basic Conversation Etiquette
Know When And How To Gracefully End The Conversation
You want to end the conversation on a high note so that she'll be clamoring see you again, but you don't want to end the conversation too early or else she might think you're not interested in her or that you're not comfortable around her. When you end a conversation with a girl and things go well, make sure you exchange numbers or contact information. If you made a connection with her, there's no reason why you shouldn't see her again. Make it clear that you'd like to get together again, but don't seem too needy or desperate. Taking a casual and relaxed approach will put her at ease and make things easier for the both of you.Learn More About Flirting »
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