If you have low self confidence, you’re more likely to have bad posture and voice tone. This can make you look and sound less attractive which will negatively affect your dating success. Even if you do have confidence, having bad posture and voice tone can still make it look like you don’t. Whatever your situation may be, it is always a good thing to carry yourself with good posture and to speak clearly and confidently.

What Is Good Posture?
To carry yourself with good posture, keep your back straight, chest out, and shoulders back. It might feel a bit strange at first if you’re used to walking and sitting slouched.

Why Is Good Posture Important?
Having good posture is important because it improves your overall appearance. If you walk and sit with good posture, you will appear at least an inch or two taller. This obviously is a good thing because height is something women always appreciate.

The second way good posture improves your appearance is that it accentuates the natural V shape of your torso. If you’re unfamiliar with the V shape of your torso, just imagine drawing a V on your back from your waist to your shoulders. If you have broader shoulders and a narrower waist, you’ll have a V shape more desirable to women. Standing and walking with your shoulders back and chest out will widen your V shape which will attract more attention from the opposite sex.

The third and last way good posture improves your appearance is that it makes you look more confident. If you ask any woman what she likes in a man, there’s a good chance she’ll mention confidence. Exuding confidence in the way you carry yourself can make you stick out to the opposite sex, and can also help you get better service at restaurants, bars, clubs, etc. If you’re still not convinced to improve your posture, it doesn’t cost a dime and can benefit your greatly. With a little practice and persistence you can improve your posture with ease.

What Is Good Voice Tone?
Having good voice tone is all about speaking clearly and confidently. When you have good voice tone you can better communicate with other people which is so important in flirting and dating.

Why Is Good Voice Tone Important?
Having bad voice tone makes your voice sound monotonous and boring. This hugely affects your conversation and flirting skills because most of the time it’s not about what you say, but how you say it. Conversation and especially flirting is all about fun, humor, and energy, and if your voice falls flat, you won’t stand much of a chance with any girl.

Unlike with good posture, you can’t just look in the mirror to see if you have good voice tone. Because your voice can sound much different than you think it does, use a voice recorder to hear what your voice really sounds like. Read some lines from a newspaper and play it back to yourself. You’ll be able to quickly tell how your voice sounds and whether you need to improve it.

If you do need help improving your voice tone and speaking skills the best way to do this is to become an active member in a Toastmasters club. If you’re unfamiliar with Toastmasters International, it’s an organization that has hundreds of clubs nation wide that help people improve their speaking skills. The clubs are very grass roots and operated by other local club members. By attending and participating in Toast Masters meetings, you’ll be able to practice your speaking skills in a safe and friendly environment.

Much like good posture, having good voice tone makes you appear more confident. Good voice tone also helps you get better service at restaurants, bars, and clubs, so it’s definitely worth spending time on.