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5 Things To Avoid When Asking Her Out
Written By Matt S.
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Tags dating, flirting, ask out,
Asking out girls is something guys fret over all the time because their success and failure are so closely tied to a simple little question. If you're a guy looking to improve your chances of success when asking a girl out, there are a few important things you should avoid at all costs.
1. Don't Ask Her Out Unless There Is At Least Some Mutual Interest
What happens frequently is guys will develop crushes on girls they don't stand a chance of dating. Some may even muster up the courage to propose a date, only to be rejected immediately. You do not want to be one of these guys because it will only make your life more awkward and humiliating. Instead, make sure there is at least some interest from girls before asking them out.
2. Don't Make It Seem Like She'd Be Doing You A Favor By Dating You
3. Don't Do It In Front Of Her Friends Or Your Friends
4. Don't Use Text Messages, Emails, Or Social Networking Sites
If you're not man enough to ask her out in person, you're not worth dating. Plus, many girls, especially the more attractive ones, get all sorts of attention from guys on the social networking sites they frequent. They constantly get messages and comments from random guys telling them how pretty they are. Do you want to be lumped into the same category as these guys? Hopefully not. Asking her out in person will help differentiate yourself from the crowd.
The ubiquity of technology is a big reason why guys still resort to using text messages, emails, and social networking sites to ask girls out, but the biggest reason is fear of rejection. If your fear of getting rejected is pushing you use text messages, email, or social networking sites to ask her out, examine the root of your fears before even deciding to ask her out. If your fears stem from your own insecurities and low confidence, these are issues you should work on before asking her out. Having these types of problems can make asking girls out difficult, and dating girls even more difficult. If asking girls out using text messages, emails, or social networking sites seems like your only option, work on developing your confidence until you are able to ask girls out in person.
5. Don't Make A Big Deal Out Of It, Especially If Rejected
It's also important not to make a big deal out of getting rejected if that's what happens. Getting rejected is never an easy thing to deal with, but if you make a big deal out of it, she will feel uncomfortable, and awkward the next time she sees you.Learn More About Dating »
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